Assalamualaikum and Hi,
Today in the Thinking Skills lecture I learn something new which is about JOHARI Window.
Some may say it is a normal window, however truth is the window is US, human being.
JOHARI Window is a technique that came from person name Joseph Luft and Harrington Ingam in 1955 in the United States.
It is about self disclosure or self awareness.
How much we willingly to tell others people about ourselves.
How much we want people to know ourselves.
Who are you and What you are is two different things
WINDOW is US (human)
The first window is about 'I know, you know'.
This is the technique use in first stage of building relationship.
However it also dangerous used in social media which we exposed ourselves too much to the strangers
The second window is 'I dont know, you know'.
This is where it is just like a mirror.
Sometimes we do not know ourselves fully but others can see through it.
That's why there's saying that if you want to know yourself better ask your enemy not your bestfriend.
The third window is 'I know, you do not know'.
This is where we keep our secret closely.
There are things in our life that we are not willingly to tell and hide from others such as bad incidents or experiences.
We feel danger and unsafe.
Do not reveal the secrets if its bring harm to you and your surrounding or even can jeopardize you.
The forth window is 'I do not know, you do not know'.
However deep inside there is 1% we know what happen actually.
Sometimes it can include traumatic event that happens to you at 2 or 3 years old.
For normal people usually it dont arise, however to those who experience traumatic event when use a hypnosis techniques that thing can arise.
In contrast, this technique is use to build a relationship with friends and better understanding between employee/employer.
Alya Zul
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